Current Church Board


Doug Bender
Lead Pastor since 2011

Married to my wonderful wife, Denise, since 1990. We have two terrific daughters, Mikaela and Mackenzie. 

Enjoys reading, bicycling, exercising, and racquetball. A fun-fact about myself is that I did my 1st solo flight when I turned 17 after having less than 20 hours of flight instruction and having completed zero percent of my “book work”. 

I love leading a team of leaders that are committed to a common objective.  Reaching out to our community and beyond as we join the worldwide church in making disciples of Jesus.  It has been great to see this team grow in their ability to think about what God might want to do through Cross Roads in the years ahead. To dream, plan, and pray together as we do our part to make room for God to do his part. I am continually amazed to see God breaking through and changing lives as people choose to follow him. It's my passion to see Cross Roads continue to grow into the church family that God desires us to be.


Sean Muldowney

Associate Pastor since 2015

Married to Jenn since 2011.

I could swim in the ocean, drink iced coffee, and read old theology books everyday of my life and never get bored of it. I have never and will never eat a hot-dog with ketchup on it.

Cross Roads is made up of so many unique people with so much to offer to the world. I am passionate about helping our congregation fully own the gifts that God has equipped us with and invite others to share in the life of Christ with us.


Bernie Hernley

I am married to Barb since 1980. We have three adult children, Aaron, Kara, and Valerie.

I enjoy playing guitar, reading, home restoration, computers/networking, and being the at-home mechanic for all my family's vehicles. You will most often see me driving my Toyota Previa van with 420,000 miles on it.

Cross Roads has been home to my family for over 30 years.  I have seen God at work in so many different ways not only in ministry opportunities for reaching our community, but in growing our young people to serve Him in many short and extended-term mission opportunities.  As treasurer, I am a member of the church board, and see this as an opportunity to use my leadership abilities to serve our church family.


 Jeff Lowe

 I am married to Karen, and we have two daughters. Kelly, in Maryland and Kristen, in Mt. Joy.

I am employed as one of the managers in the parts department at Messick's Farm Equipment. I enjoy sports and outdoor activities. I enjoy working on my lawn and going hunting. I am in the PA State Record book for a deer I harvested in archery season. 

God is doing great things here at Cross Roads! I am thankful to be able to use my gifts of leadership and discernment as I serve on the board.  


Ethan Frey

I attend Cross Roads with my wife Kristen, and our kids Logan, Greyson and Caitlyn.

 I enjoy getting outdoors for backpacking trips. I love to start reading books, and  usually have 20 to 30 that I have started reading but have not finished – but don’t worry,  they’re on my list of books to finish. I only have time to follow one sport, so I follow football, and love/hate the Eagles. I’m incredibly grateful that my work is my calling. At Humankind, I’m able to do what I am gifted at and enjoy doing, while also helping end the world’s water crisis.

I believe the local church is a catalyst for life change, and I want to be a part of that. I’m humbled to be able to serve on the Church Board at Cross Roads and to see how our church staff, volunteer leaders and the rest of the church body works to impact lives for the Kingdom.


 Kelsey Heisey

I am married to Jeff and we have a daughter, Kendall.

I enjoy anything in the outdoors: athletics, hiking, running, and hunting are a few examples. I also enjoy working in the outdoor industry and contributing to my family business, Kinsey's.

I am passionate about Cross Roads because it is a place that Jeff's family is very rooted in. I see God at work and alive in Cross Roads. Church Board is a place where I can use my leadership skills to serve the church and hopefully help make decisions to impact the kingdom. 


 Douglas Metzler


I have been blessed with an amazing and patient wife who is carrying our second child. We also have a two year old boy named Abel. 

In my spare time like to have good fellowship with friends and to quote my mother Eunice, "Sometimes it's fun to cheat death". 

My passion, and the reason I serve on church board is to give a youthful perspective and insight into the physical building that the church operates in.


Faithe Oberholtzer

My husband, Kevin, and I have been married for 31 years.  We have two daughters and a son-in-law.

I enjoy scrap-booking memories and have quite a collection.

I love Cross Roads because it has become my family.  When we moved here 2 years after we were married, I didn’t realize I would learn so much about loving God and being loved by our Heavenly Father. My passion is to see people learn to know God better and grow in hearing his voice.


Becky Schwartz

My husband Matt and I have attended Cross Roads for more than 20 years. We have twin sons: Cole and Brady and a daughter Cami.

I've worked for Merck Pharmaceuticals in Central PA for 20 years. I keep busy by involving myself in my kid's activities and events. You will often find me cheering them on at a swim meet, soccer game, or running event. Our family loves vacationing in Ocean City, NJ.

I think Cross Roads has a passion for reaching out to the community and encouraging people to "do life" together. I enjoy serving alongside some very smart and forward thinking people on Church Board. 


Lois Wallick

I have 2 amazing children, Kyle and Mindy; and I have been widowed since 2008.

I have worked for the same Financial Institution (BB&T Bank) for over 42 years. I enjoy the outdoors, doing yard-work, hiking, relaxing at the beach or the mountains and spending time with family & friends. I also enjoy watching baseball, football, and Nascar racing. My favorite vacation destination is Hawaii.

I have enjoyed watching the growth at Cross Roads over the past several years and I’m excited to see God working in so many different ways, in & through so many different persons in the church & community.